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Carl F. Wand, Esq. Effects on Children Divorce always has an affect on children. Sometimes children appear to be unaffected but, in almost all cases, the reality is that the feelings are either suppressed or there is a process of denial in place. Children usually feel confused and unsure as to [...] Carl F. Wand, Esq. Most people entering into the divorce or separation process understand that there will be an end to the marriage, a change in the relationship between each parent and his/her children, a change in finances, and a change in relationships with extended family and friends. However, it [...] Carl F. Wand, Esq. Children should always be reassured they will still have two parents to love and that they still have two parents who love them. Ideally this could be accomplished in a family setting. However, if great difficulty exists in communication within your family, a divorce counselor or [...] Carl F. Wand, Esq. Telling the Family Once the decisions have been made to get a divorce or separation and it’s been decided how you’re going to proceed, it becomes important to consider communicating with other family members and friends. The most important people to communicate with first, are your children. [...] Carl F. Wand, Esq. The successful divorce is one in which both parties feel they have been heard, and have had an opportunity to have input in the formulation of the divorce agreement. A sense of fairness and equality usually predominates even through the pain. The terms of the agreement [...] Carl F. Wand, Esq. Millions of Americans have become the victims of unsuccessful divorces. The unsuccessful divorce is one which devastates the family financially and/or emotionally. It leads to ongoing conflict because of dissatisfaction with the divorce agreement. It often results in continued harassment, litigation, or unfulfilled obligations such as [...] Carl F. Wand, Esq. Severe Circumstances Another leading cause of marital failure is drug and/or alcohol abuse. More and more people in our society are becoming dependent on alcohol or other substances and this can lead to financial or emotional problems many people are unable to deal with successfully. Physical problems can [...] Carl F. Wand, Esq. Unmet Expectations Marriages fail for many reasons but unmet expectations almost always play a major role. We enter the marriage with very complex and sometimes unrealistic expectations. Whether we were brought up with the “Brady Bunch” or the “Adams Family,” we all have an idea of what [...] Carl F. Wand, Esq. A divorce is a legal decree signed by a judge which ends the legal union between two people. While this is true, a divorce is a legal event that ends the marriage, divorce is also a process which takes place over time. The process of divorce includes [...] |
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